Honestly, consistency matters more than intensity here — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today. Are there any crossdresser dating app options for the community?
One thing I notice: a first meeting in a busy place removes most of the problem — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.
- If it helps, recommendation lists tend to reflect affiliate deals more than quality — others here may have had a different experience.
- I made a point of accepted that not every match was going to lead anywhere, and it saved me a lot of grief
- Always checked what the platform did with my data before uploading anything, every single time
My take: the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.