From what I have seen, consistency matters more than intensity here — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms. Speaking generally, expecting any single conversation to work out is the wrong frame — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip. Are there any free single mom dating sites where the guys are actually supportive?
Speaking generally, consistency matters more than intensity here — happy to be argued with on that one.
- Every time I looked for evidence of real moderation rather than claims about it right from the first week
- Almost immediately I stopped treating a quiet week as evidence of anything, every single time
- Something I learned the hard way — I removed anything that needed a paragraph of explanation, however tempting it was to skip
If it helps, treating it as a numbers game is the fastest route to burning out — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.