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Are there any genuine sex only sites where people don't want to chat for weeks first?

Started by HenryL 11 Feb 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps 8 posts
HenryL
HenryL
Joined: Jun 2019
Messages: 303
#1
Okay so this might be a dumb question but I genuinely want to know: Are there any genuine sex only sites where people don't want to chat for weeks first? Happy to hear all takes. Privacy is a big concern for me personally. I don't want my info getting sold or my phone blowing up with spam after I sign up somewhere. Anyone had issues with that?
  • Is there a free tier that's actually usable?
  • What's the cancellation policy like?
  • Does it require a credit card to browse?
  • Are there verified profiles?
Would appreciate any real experiences or tips. Thanks in advance.
DennisO
DennisO
Joined: Jan 2023
Messages: 465
#2
Agree with most of what's been said so far. Key is patience and being selective. Heard good things about datingfly.online from some folks in my area too.
Paul Walker
Paul Walker
Joined: Mar 2024
Messages: 807
#3
So I've been doing this for a while and here's what I've found: Privacy-wise, use a throwaway email for signups. Don't link your social accounts and keep location permissions turned off until you're ready. Some things that actually helped me:
  • Read reviews on Reddit before paying for any platform
  • Verified the profile before investing too much time
  • Trusted my gut when something felt off
  • Always set a first meeting in a coffee shop or busy public spot
Someone in another thread recommended Ezhookups and I gave it a shot — it's worth a look honestly.
FaithR
FaithR
Joined: Jun 2018
Messages: 856
#4
Honestly same boat here. Took me a while to figure this out. Heard good things about flurrydate.online from some folks in my area too.
ZoeW
ZoeW
Joined: Apr 2023
Messages: 713
#5
Let me share what actually worked for me after a lot of trial and error: Be upfront about what you're looking for. Vague profiles get vague results.
Amanda Torres
Amanda Torres
Joined: May 2018
Messages: 469
#6
This is something I spent a lot of time researching, so let me break it down: Don't underestimate the mainstream apps for this. Plenty of Fish, OkCupid, Coffee Meets Bagel, Bumble — all of them have people looking for the same thing if you know how to filter. Some things that actually helped me:
  • Used a Google Voice number for initial contact
  • Always set a first meeting in a coffee shop or busy public spot
  • Trusted my gut when something felt off
  • Read reviews on Reddit before paying for any platform
One platform I actually had decent luck with is Datebie — the interface is cleaner than most and the user base felt real.
YvonneP
YvonneP
Joined: Apr 2019
Messages: 137
#7
Honestly same boat here. Took me a while to figure this out.
Mike Thompson
Mike Thompson
Joined: Feb 2019
Messages: 731
#8
So I've been doing this for a while and here's what I've found: Be upfront about what you're looking for. Vague profiles get vague results. One platform I actually had decent luck with is Datebound — the interface is cleaner than most and the user base felt real.
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