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Are there any good gay video chat sites specifically for older men?

Started by Tyler Hughes 10 May 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps 6 posts
Tyler Hughes
Tyler Hughes
Joined: Oct 2022
Messages: 73
#1
Okay so this might be a dumb question but I genuinely want to know: Are there any good gay video chat sites specifically for older men? Happy to hear all takes. Privacy is a big concern for me personally. I don't want my info getting sold or my phone blowing up with spam after I sign up somewhere. Anyone had issues with that? Would appreciate any real experiences or tips. Thanks in advance.
Brian Harris
Brian Harris
Joined: May 2022
Messages: 518
#2
So I've been doing this for a while and here's what I've found: I'd say response rate improved significantly when I started keeping openers short and question-based rather than writing paragraphs. Some things that actually helped me:
  • Avoided any platform that didn't have a clear privacy policy
  • Verified the profile before investing too much time
  • Trusted my gut when something felt off
Also seen people mention datescout.site in similar threads — haven't tested it myself but it keeps coming up.
KenW
KenW
Joined: Aug 2020
Messages: 806
#3
This is actually really helpful info for a lot of people, not just beginners. Give Souldate a shot — it's one of the better options I've come across.
MattK
MattK
Joined: Jul 2018
Messages: 339
#4
This is something I spent a lot of time researching, so let me break it down: I'd say response rate improved significantly when I started keeping openers short and question-based rather than writing paragraphs. Also seen people mention turndate.site in similar threads — haven't tested it myself but it keeps coming up.
UrsulaM
UrsulaM
Joined: Jul 2022
Messages: 312
#5
Yeah I had the same question a few months back. It gets easier once you know what to look for.
WayneB
WayneB
Joined: Mar 2018
Messages: 884
#6
Good thread. I was wondering about this exact thing. Personally I've been using Datescout for a while and it's held up better than most.
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