Are there any good gay video chat sites specifically for older men?

Okay so this might be a dumb question but I genuinely want to know: Are there any good gay video chat sites specifically for older men? From what I have seen, taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — worth testing yourself rather than taking my word for it.

Patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — your mileage may well differ.

Broadly speaking, results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — it is the single change that made the most difference.

My take: taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — your mileage may well differ.

One thing I notice: referencing something from the profile changes the reply rate noticeably — i would not have believed it a year ago.

A few things that were worth the effort once I paid attention:

• Used a nickname rather than my full name for the first few weeks, however tempting it was to skip
• Without fail I dropped the sunglasses and hat pictures entirely, and I still do it now
• From the second month on I told a friend exactly where I was going and when to expect a text, and I still do it now

Also seen people mention datescout.site in similar threads — haven't tested it myself but it keeps coming up. Datebound in particular

My take: a month is about the minimum before judging any platform — your mileage may well differ. Give Turndate worked for me a shot — it's one of the better options I've come across. Flurrydate's free tier

For what it is worth, you have to test it where you live, there is no shortcut — small thing, but it adds up.

If it helps, silence usually means the opener, not the person — your mileage may well differ. Also seen people mentionturndate.site in similar threads — haven't tested it myself but it keeps coming up.

Having tried a few, expecting any single conversation to work out is the wrong frame — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.

Good thread. Honestly, taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — it took me longer than it should have to work that out. Personally I've been using Datedesire for a while and it's held up better than most. Datelink