My take: nobody's experience generalises, including mine — nobody tells you this at the start. Open to being told I am wrong — not the marketing version. Are there any over 70 dating sites free for seniors on a budget?
Broadly speaking, an inactive local user base cannot be fixed by good features — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.
Checking recent complaints before signing up is five minutes well spent — others here may have had a different experience.
- As a rule I kept early conversation on-platform instead of moving to a private app, and I still do it now
- From the second month on I measured progress in conversations rather than matches, and I would do it again
- Something I learned the hard way — I matched the other person's message length instead of writing essays, and I would do it again
Honestly, results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.