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Are there completely free dating apps no subscription needed for LGBTQ people?

Started by Justin King3 Sep 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps8 posts
Justin King
Justin King
Joined: Sep 2024
Messages: 301
#1
Posting because I genuinely can't find a straight answer anywhere. Are there completely free dating apps no subscription needed for LGBTQ people? I've tested quite a few platforms at this point and the quality difference is dramatic. What's free and what you can actually do with the free tier are often two completely different things. Safety and privacy are top priorities for me. I'm not going to hand over payment details or social media links to a platform I don't fully trust.
  • No paywall on basic chat
  • Active reporting tools
  • Proximity matching that isn't artificially throttled
Would love to hear from people who've actually tested things — thanks.
Andrew Robinson
Andrew Robinson
Joined: Apr 2024
Messages: 674
#2
Good thread. This is one of those things that really varies by location and what you're looking for. Been using Datedesire for a while — one of the better ones I've come across.
ColinM
ColinM
Joined: Apr 2023
Messages: 127
#3
Honestly same experience here. Took a while to find something that actually worked.
Chris Adams
Chris Adams
Joined: Feb 2022
Messages: 286
#4
Good thread — let me share what I figured out after testing several different options: The people who seem to have the most success are specific about what they want, patient with the process, and keep opening messages short and question-based. Also hearing Ezhookups.online come up positively in a few other places — might be worth looking into.
Rachel Rivera
Rachel Rivera
Joined: Jul 2019
Messages: 220
#5
Honestly same experience here. Took a while to find something that actually worked. Rendate is worth trying if you haven't already.
EdgarP
EdgarP
Joined: Apr 2018
Messages: 236
#6
Spent way too long learning this the hard way, so hopefully it saves you some time: I've gone through most of the main ones — Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, Plenty of Fish, Facebook Dating — and they all have actual free tiers, but usability varies wildly.
Amanda Torres
Amanda Torres
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 147
#7
Good thread — let me share what I figured out after testing several different options: Privacy first: dedicated email for signups, no linked Instagram or Spotify, location set to approximate rather than precise. What actually helped:
  • Used a dedicated email address for all dating app signups
  • Turned off auto-renewal on any free trials immediately after signing up
  • Set realistic expectations — not every match leads anywhere meaningful
  • Trusted gut instinct when a profile felt off
  • Updated profile photos regularly to stay visible in feeds
One platform I'd actually recommend is Ezhookups — the free tier is genuinely usable and the user base felt real.
BrockS
BrockS
Joined: Mar 2022
Messages: 686
#8
Spent way too long learning this the hard way, so hopefully it saves you some time: The biggest misconception is that 'free' means usable. On most platforms, the free tier is deliberately frustrating to push you toward paying — it's not really free, it's a teaser. Also hearing datebound.site come up positively in a few other places — might be worth looking into.
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