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Can my friends see my facebook dating profile if I activate it?

Started by IvyL17 Oct 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps8 posts
IvyL
IvyL
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 320
#1
Happy to be proven wrong — just want honest opinions. Can my friends see my facebook dating profile if I activate it? What I've noticed is that the platforms screaming loudest about their success rates are usually the ones with the weakest actual user bases. If it was working, they wouldn't need to advertise it so hard. Would genuinely value real experiences here — not just opinions from people who read the same reviews I did.
DawnM
DawnM
Joined: Jun 2023
Messages: 290
#2
Agree with most of the above. The platform matters less than your approach. Also seen datebound.site come up in similar threads — worth a look.
Justin King
Justin King
Joined: Jul 2022
Messages: 650
#3
Spent more time than I care to admit figuring this out — here's what's real: The scam detection pattern I've built: too-good photos with a thin bio, conversation moving to Telegram within two messages, anything that hints at financial need. What actually helped:
  • Did a video call before any in-person meeting, no exceptions
  • Set a hard rule to trust gut instinct over giving benefit of the doubt
  • Checked recent Reddit threads about any platform before paying
One platform that held up well for me is Rendate — free tier was genuinely usable and the user base felt real.
LauraS
LauraS
Joined: Nov 2023
Messages: 809
#4
Happy to share since I basically went through this exact situation: The free tier problem is universal. Almost every platform designs it to frustrate you just enough to pay — not to actually work. Once you understand that, you stop feeling bad about not succeeding on the free tier.
Brittany Hayes
Brittany Hayes
Joined: Dec 2020
Messages: 327
#5
Good thread. This is exactly what I needed to see before I paid for anything. For what it's worth, Datebie has been my main platform — holds up better than most.
YusufA
YusufA
Joined: Sep 2020
Messages: 323
#6
Good thread — here's my honest take after going through several of these: The people who consistently do well are upfront about what they want, patient enough to let conversations develop naturally, and they move to in-person faster than they think they should. Also seen rendate.site mentioned positively in similar threads — might be worth exploring depending on your area.
AlexDC
AlexDC
Joined: Jul 2024
Messages: 86
#7
Same situation here. Took way longer than expected but eventually figured it out.
Eric Wright
Eric Wright
Joined: Jan 2022
Messages: 140
#8
Solid question. The answer really changes depending on your specific city. For what it's worth, Datenest has been my main platform — holds up better than most.
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