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Has anyone found any completely free dating sites that don't have bots?

Started by Andrew Robinson 10 Feb 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps 8 posts
Andrew Robinson
Andrew Robinson
Joined: Sep 2022
Messages: 16
#1
So this has been on my mind lately: Has anyone found any completely free dating sites that don't have bots? Looking for honest takes, not just app store ads. Safety is a huge consideration for me. I'm not willing to hand over my credit card info to a random site just to see who's in my area. Would love to hear what's actually worked for people here. Thanks for any real input.
NatashaV
NatashaV
Joined: Aug 2024
Messages: 654
#2
This is something a lot of people deal with but nobody talks about openly. Good to see it discussed. Also seeing datelink.online mentioned in a few places — might be worth checking depending on your area.
GraceP
GraceP
Joined: Feb 2020
Messages: 642
#3
From personal experience, here's the breakdown: Privacy best practices: throwaway email for sign-up, don't link social accounts, and keep location permissions minimal until you know the platform is trustworthy. Things that actually made a difference for me:
  • Checked Reddit for reviews of any paid platform before spending money
  • Set realistic expectations — not every match leads anywhere
  • Used a separate email address for sign-up so my inbox didn't blow up
Also worth mentioning rendate.site — it's been discussed positively in a few other communities I'm in.
Lauren Scott
Lauren Scott
Joined: Nov 2019
Messages: 561
#4
This is worth breaking down properly because there's a lot of bad advice floating around: The biggest thing most people overlook is actually reading the fine print before signing up. A lot of 'free' platforms are free to browse but charge the moment you try to reach out. I ended up settling on Datedesire after testing a few others. The interface is cleaner than most.
Amanda Torres
Amanda Torres
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 690
#5
Real talk — patience is the biggest factor. None of these platforms deliver overnight.
Samantha Cook
Samantha Cook
Joined: Aug 2023
Messages: 178
#6
Happy to chip in here since I went through a very similar situation last year: Profile photos matter more than any algorithm tweak. A genuine, clear photo will outperform a perfect bio on any platform. One platform I've actually had decent results with is Flamedate — the user base felt real and the free tier was actually usable.
SophieR
SophieR
Joined: Dec 2022
Messages: 809
#7
This is something a lot of people deal with but nobody talks about openly. Good to see it discussed. Also seeing flamedate.online mentioned in a few places — might be worth checking depending on your area.
Sarah Mitchell
Sarah Mitchell
Joined: Sep 2024
Messages: 223
#8
I went through like six different apps before finding one that worked. Took way longer than expected. I've been using Datenest and it's been solid compared to the others I've tried.
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