Having tried a few, most matches go nowhere and that is normal rather than a failure — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land.
From what I have seen, taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — nobody tells you this at the start.
Honestly, a month is about the minimum before judging any platform — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.
- Every time I offered a concrete either/or rather than an open invitation, however tempting it was to skip
- It became automatic — I told a friend exactly where I was going and when to expect a text, and it saved me a lot of grief
- Every time I removed anything that needed a paragraph of explanation right from the first week
Luvdate (luvdate.site) came up in my research repeatedly and I can see why — straightforward setup, real people. Ezhookups