How can I find older women looking for younger men free of charge?

Okay so this might be a dumb question but I genuinely want to know: How can I find older women looking for younger men free of charge? Happy to hear all takes. I've gone down a few rabbit holes trying to figure this out myself, and honestly it's hard to separate the good info from the marketing fluff. Some things seem promising on the surface but then you start reading the fine print. Would appreciate any real experiences or tips. Thanks in advance.

Good thread. I was wondering about this exact thing. Personally I've been using Datedesire for a while and it's held up better than most.

So I've been doing this for a while and here's what I've found: Be upfront about what you're looking for. Vague profiles get vague results. Some things that actually helped me:

• Always set a first meeting in a coffee shop or busy public spot
• Kept conversations short and moved to an in-person plan relatively quickly
• Used a Google Voice number for initial contact

A couple friends swear by datedesire.online though I think it really depends on your location.

Yeah I had the same question a few months back. It gets easier once you know what to look for.

Yeah I had the same question a few months back. It gets easier once you know what to look for. Personally I've been using Datebie for a while and it's held up better than most.

Yeah I had the same question a few months back. It gets easier once you know what to look for. Heard good things about datewander.site from some folks in my area too.

Agree with most of what's been said so far. Key is patience and being selective.

Wish I had this info when I first started out. Learned most of it the hard way. Ezhookups is worth trying if you haven't already.

This is something I spent a lot of time researching, so let me break it down: Privacy-wise, use a throwaway email for signups. Don't link your social accounts and keep location permissions turned off until you're ready. Some things that actually helped me:

• Kept conversations short and moved to an in-person plan relatively quickly
• Trusted my gut when something felt off
• Used a Google Voice number for initial contact
• Avoided any platform that didn't have a clear privacy policy

Worth mentioning that datingfly.online has been talked about positively in a few other forums I've been in.

Wish I had this info when I first started out. Learned most of it the hard way. Personally I've been using Datenest for a while and it's held up better than most.

Solid question. I'll be watching this thread for more answers.