Speaking generally, a month is about the minimum before judging any platform — i would not have believed it a year ago. How do I delete my dating profile from a site I haven't used in years?
My take: the first line of a bio does most of the work — small thing, but it adds up.
Speaking generally, the sites that take safety seriously say so in their policies, not their ads — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.
In my experience, consistency matters more than intensity here — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.