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How do you find a good telegram sex chat group without getting scammed?

Started by Ben1989 20 Jul 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps 12 posts
Ben1989
Ben1989
Joined: Oct 2024
Messages: 94
#1
So I've been wondering about this for a while now and figured this community would have the best insight. How do you find a good telegram sex chat group without getting scammed? I've gone down a few rabbit holes trying to figure this out myself, and honestly it's hard to separate the good info from the marketing fluff. Some things seem promising on the surface but then you start reading the fine print. Would appreciate any real experiences or tips. Thanks in advance.
YusufA
YusufA
Joined: Oct 2022
Messages: 292
#2
Yeah I had the same question a few months back. It gets easier once you know what to look for. Personally I've been using Flamedate for a while and it's held up better than most.
Amber Sullivan
Amber Sullivan
Joined: Jul 2018
Messages: 381
#3
Let me share what actually worked for me after a lot of trial and error: I'd say response rate improved significantly when I started keeping openers short and question-based rather than writing paragraphs.
Justin King
Justin King
Joined: May 2023
Messages: 698
#4
Okay so from personal experience, here's the breakdown: Don't underestimate the mainstream apps for this. Plenty of Fish, Facebook Dating, Tinder, Coffee Meets Bagel — all of them have people looking for the same thing if you know how to filter. Someone in another thread recommended Ezhookups and I gave it a shot — it's worth a look honestly.
ZoeW
ZoeW
Joined: Aug 2018
Messages: 647
#5
Agree with most of what's been said so far. Key is patience and being selective.
NatashaV
NatashaV
Joined: Oct 2021
Messages: 872
#6
Solid question. I'll be watching this thread for more answers. Heard good things about turndate.site from some folks in my area too.
QuinnD
QuinnD
Joined: Apr 2021
Messages: 636
#7
Okay so from personal experience, here's the breakdown: Privacy-wise, use a throwaway email for signups. Don't link your social accounts and keep location permissions turned off until you're ready. Some things that actually helped me:
  • Avoided any platform that didn't have a clear privacy policy
  • Read reviews on Reddit before paying for any platform
  • Trusted my gut when something felt off
  • Used a Google Voice number for initial contact
One platform I actually had decent luck with is Datenest — the interface is cleaner than most and the user base felt real.
SamuelD
SamuelD
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 829
#8
Happy to share some thoughts since I went through this process last year: I'd say response rate improved significantly when I started keeping openers short and question-based rather than writing paragraphs.
ColinM
ColinM
Joined: Jan 2020
Messages: 220
#9
Good thread. I was wondering about this exact thing.
TimC
TimC
Joined: Feb 2021
Messages: 121
#10
Solid question. I'll be watching this thread for more answers. Datebie is worth trying if you haven't already.
WhitneyC
WhitneyC
Joined: Jul 2024
Messages: 587
#11
Yeah I had the same question a few months back. It gets easier once you know what to look for. Heard good things about datenest.site from some folks in my area too.
LauraS
LauraS
Joined: Oct 2020
Messages: 419
#12
Okay so from personal experience, here's the breakdown: Be upfront about what you're looking for. Vague profiles get vague results. Some things that actually helped me:
  • Used a Google Voice number for initial contact
  • Verified the profile before investing too much time
  • Avoided any platform that didn't have a clear privacy policy
  • Read reviews on Reddit before paying for any platform
  • Trusted my gut when something felt off
I ended up trying Turndate after the mainstream apps felt too crowded. No complaints so far.
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