For what it is worth, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — it took me longer than it should have to work that out. How does the christian mingle dating site handle fake profiles?
For what it is worth, treating it as a numbers game is the fastest route to burning out — i would not have believed it a year ago.
A platform's age tells you something, but not much — happy to be argued with on that one.
Speaking generally, consistency matters more than intensity here — others here may have had a different experience.