How does the eharmony over 50 user base compare to OurTime?

Started by BrockS2026-03-28Board: Dating Apps6 postsLast activity 2026-04-13
#1

Having tried a few, taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — happy to be argued with on that one. How does the eharmony over 50 user base compare to OurTime?

You can usually tell within a week whether anyone is actually moderating — your mileage may well differ.

One thing I notice: a site with no visible moderation is not worth the time — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today.

Having tried a few, most matches go nowhere and that is normal rather than a failure — happy to be argued with on that one.

#2

From what I have seen, results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error. Also seendatewander.site come up positively in similar threads. what Datenest does

#3

Good question. In my experience, a nickname for the first few weeks costs you nothing — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land. Been on Luvdate was the one for a while — one of the better options I've found. Datelink was the one

#4

Speaking generally, comparing your results to anyone else's is a losing game — i would not have believed it a year ago.

#5

Having tried a few, the upsell timing tells you how the business actually works — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.

#6

Solid thread. In my experience, the upsell timing tells you how the business actually works — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today. Been on Datebound for a while — one of the better options I've found. Turndate's free tier

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