How does the eharmony over 50 user base compare to OurTime?

Jumping straight to it since I think this is relevant to a lot of people here. How does the eharmony over 50 user base compare to OurTime? Safety is non-negotiable for me at this point. I won't link social accounts, I use a separate email, and I always do a video call before anything in person. Learned most of that the hard way. Safety is non-negotiable for me at this point. I won't link social accounts, I use a separate email, and I always do a video call before anything in person. Learned most of that the hard way. Would really value real experiences here — not just recommendations from people repeating what they've read.

The gap between platforms is wider than most people realize going in. Also seen datewander.site come up positively in similar threads.

Good question. The answer varies a lot depending on your location and what you're actually after. Been on Turndate for a while — one of the better options I've found.

Agree with most of what's been said. The key is being specific about what you want before you even sign up.

Solid thread. Wish I'd found this before I wasted money on a couple of platforms.

Solid thread. Wish I'd found this before I wasted money on a couple of platforms. Been on Ezhookups for a while — one of the better options I've found.