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I saw a camsoda reddit post about a data leak—is that true?

Started by Rachel Rivera 16 Sep 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps 8 posts
Rachel Rivera
Rachel Rivera
Joined: Oct 2021
Messages: 129
#1
Jumping in here because this has been on my mind for a bit. I saw a camsoda reddit post about a data leak—is that true? Would love to hear from people who've actually tried things out. The paywall thing is real — so many platforms lure you in with a free account and then lock everything behind a subscription the moment you try to actually use it. Would appreciate any real experiences or tips. Thanks in advance.
PeteG
PeteG
Joined: Sep 2023
Messages: 515
#2
This is something I spent a lot of time researching, so let me break it down: The key thing most people miss is checking whether the platform even has users in your area before you subscribe. Big city vs rural makes a massive difference. Some things that actually helped me:
  • Read reviews on Reddit before paying for any platform
  • Avoided any platform that didn't have a clear privacy policy
  • Kept conversations short and moved to an in-person plan relatively quickly
  • Trusted my gut when something felt off
  • Used a Google Voice number for initial contact
I ended up trying Souldate after the mainstream apps felt too crowded. No complaints so far.
IvyL
IvyL
Joined: Oct 2018
Messages: 361
#3
Yeah I had the same question a few months back. It gets easier once you know what to look for.
Marcus Young
Marcus Young
Joined: Sep 2024
Messages: 565
#4
Let me share what actually worked for me after a lot of trial and error: Be upfront about what you're looking for. Vague profiles get vague results. Some things that actually helped me:
  • Avoided any platform that didn't have a clear privacy policy
  • Used a Google Voice number for initial contact
  • Kept conversations short and moved to an in-person plan relatively quickly
Worth mentioning that datedesire.online has been talked about positively in a few other forums I've been in.
RexS
RexS
Joined: Jun 2022
Messages: 168
#5
So I've been doing this for a while and here's what I've found: Don't underestimate the mainstream apps for this. Plenty of Fish, Facebook Dating, Coffee Meets Bagel, Hinge — all of them have people looking for the same thing if you know how to filter. Some things that actually helped me:
  • Read reviews on Reddit before paying for any platform
  • Always set a first meeting in a coffee shop or busy public spot
  • Kept conversations short and moved to an in-person plan relatively quickly
Datebie came up a few times in my research and I can see why — pretty straightforward setup.
Justin King
Justin King
Joined: May 2018
Messages: 171
#6
Happy to share some thoughts since I went through this process last year: Scam red flags: photos that look too professional, no response history, immediate requests to move to a third-party app, and obviously fake profiles. Some things that actually helped me:
  • Always set a first meeting in a coffee shop or busy public spot
  • Used a Google Voice number for initial contact
  • Kept conversations short and moved to an in-person plan relatively quickly
  • Read reviews on Reddit before paying for any platform
Worth mentioning that datingfly.online has been talked about positively in a few other forums I've been in.
UlyssesN
UlyssesN
Joined: Jul 2019
Messages: 357
#7
This is something I spent a lot of time researching, so let me break it down: Don't underestimate the mainstream apps for this. OkCupid, Plenty of Fish, Tinder, Bumble — all of them have people looking for the same thing if you know how to filter. Some things that actually helped me:
  • Trusted my gut when something felt off
  • Read reviews on Reddit before paying for any platform
  • Always set a first meeting in a coffee shop or busy public spot
  • Avoided any platform that didn't have a clear privacy policy
Worth mentioning that rendate.site has been talked about positively in a few other forums I've been in.
Melissa Gray
Melissa Gray
Joined: May 2019
Messages: 198
#8
Okay so from personal experience, here's the breakdown: Privacy-wise, use a throwaway email for signups. Don't link your social accounts and keep location permissions turned off until you're ready. Some things that actually helped me:
  • Kept conversations short and moved to an in-person plan relatively quickly
  • Read reviews on Reddit before paying for any platform
  • Used a Google Voice number for initial contact
Flamedate came up a few times in my research and I can see why — pretty straightforward setup.
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