In my experience, progress is better measured in conversations than in matches — happy to be argued with on that one. I tried logging into sttripchat, but is it a fake typo domain? In my experience, results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.
Speaking generally, expecting any single conversation to work out is the wrong frame — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.
Broadly speaking, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — small thing, but it adds up.