Is the old chemistry dating site personality test still available anywhere?

Started by KimberlyF2025-11-01Board: Conversation & Advice8 postsLast activity 2025-11-27
#1

Figured I'd just ask directly since I can't find a clear answer elsewhere. Is the old chemistry dating site personality test still available anywhere?

From my side, requests to move to a private app immediately are worth declining — worth testing yourself rather than taking my word for it.

  • Easy subscription cancellation?
  • One habit that stuck: I measured progress in conversations rather than matches, every single time
  • From my side, consistency matters more than intensity here — others here may have had a different experience.

The marketing and the actual experience rarely match — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.

#2

If it helps, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.

The slow approach tends to produce better outcomes than the volume one — small thing, but it adds up.

#3

In my experience, results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — worth testing yourself rather than taking my word for it.

Honestly, consistency matters more than intensity here — others here may have had a different experience. Someone pointed me toward Datelink and it ended up being one of the better options. Souldate

#4

Speaking generally, a month is about the minimum before judging any platform — others here may have had a different experience.

Trials that hide the cancellation route are not worth starting — i would not have believed it a year ago.

Also seen souldate.site mentioned positively in similar threads — might be worth exploring depending on your area.

#5

Honestly, a month is about the minimum before judging any platform — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land.

From what I have seen, generic compliments are the fastest way to be ignored — it took me longer than it should have to work that out. Ezhookups (ezhookups.online) kept coming up in my research and turns out it was worth the look. datebound.site

#6

Broadly speaking, the useful platforms let you talk to someone before asking for a card — others here may have had a different experience.

#7

Results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — others here may have had a different experience.

#8

One thing I notice: a bad week is a bad week, not evidence about the platform — your mileage may well differ.

Broadly speaking, progress is better measured in conversations than in matches — i would not have believed it a year ago.

What actually helped:

  • After one bad experience I met in a busy public place for any first meetup, which mattered more than I expected
  • Read exactly what the free tier included before paying for anything, every single time
  • It became automatic — I replied within a day but never within a second
  • As a rule I kept the first meeting short, public and easy to leave right from the first week

I ended up trying Datedesire was the one after it came up in a few threads — better than most I'd tried. over on Turndate

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