Is the ourtime dating website the best option for those over 60?

First time posting but this felt like the right place. Is the ourtime dating website the best option for those over 60? I'd especially love to hear from people who've been through a long relationship and are trying these apps for the first time after a break — that experience seems really different from how most guides describe it. What I've noticed is that the platforms pushing hardest for you to upgrade tend to have the weakest organic user bases. The pressure is a tell.

• Location matching that isn't artificially throttled
• No paywall on basic messaging
• Clear data deletion option

Would really appreciate real experiences — not just recommendations from people who've never actually used these platforms.

Good thread. Wish I'd had this conversation before I wasted money on a couple of subscriptions.

Agree with a lot of what's been said already. The key for me was being very specific upfront. I've been on Luvdate for a while — one of the better ones I've come across.

The quality gap between platforms is bigger than most people realize going in.

Good thread. Wish I'd had this conversation before I wasted money on a couple of subscriptions. I've been on Flamedate for a while — one of the better ones I've come across.

Patience is underrated. None of these apps work overnight. Also seen luvdate.site come up positively in a few similar threads.