For what it is worth, the slow approach tends to produce better outcomes than the volume one — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms. Is there a dating app for plus size women that has a supportive community?
The same platform can be excellent in one city and dead in another — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land.
From what I have seen, the sites that take safety seriously say so in their policies, not their ads — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today.
Broadly speaking, results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.