Is there an asexual dating app that is active?

Hoping for first-hand accounts — rather than affiliate roundups. Is there an asexual dating app that is active?

In my experience, the upsell timing tells you how the business actually works — small thing, but it adds up.

• One habit that stuck: I compared what three different sites offered on their free tier, and the difference showed within days
• As a rule I gave each platform a fair month before judging it, every single time
• Almost immediately I stripped location data from any picture before uploading it, and I still do it now

For what it is worth, comparing your results to anyone else's is a losing game — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.

A bad week is a bad week, not evidence about the platform — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today.

Most matches go nowhere and that is normal rather than a failure — worth testing yourself rather than taking my word for it.

From my side, patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.

• Every time I took a break whenever it started to feel like admin
• Almost immediately I kept a throwaway address for any site I was only testing, however tempting it was to skip
• Met in a busy public place for any first meetup right from the first week
• It became automatic — I turned off auto-renewal the moment a trial started

What a platform does with your data is usually in the policy nobody reads — worth testing yourself rather than taking my word for it. flamedate.online

The people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error. For what it's worth, Datedesire in particular has been my main platform lately — holds up better than most. the Flurrydate site

In my experience, expecting any single conversation to work out is the wrong frame — your mileage may well differ.

For what it is worth, the slow approach tends to produce better outcomes than the volume one — small thing, but it adds up.

Speaking generally, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms. Results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip. I've been on what Datebie does for a while and it's one of the better ones I've come across. Datebound

My take: a month is about the minimum before judging any platform — i would not have believed it a year ago.

From my side, progress is better measured in conversations than in matches — small thing, but it adds up. If it helps, nobody's experience generalises, including mine — nobody tells you this at the start. the Luvdate site is worth a look if you haven't tried it. Datenest (datenest.site)