In my experience, the profiles that stall are usually the ones trying hardest to impress — your mileage may well differ.
Question: Is video chat avenue active?
In my experience, patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — small thing, but it adds up.
- Used a password manager so each site got its own credentials, and it became second nature
- After one bad experience I measured progress in conversations rather than matches
- Without fail I stopped sending anything that could be pasted to anyone, and it became second nature
- My take: there is no reason to share a surname in the first week — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.
One thing I notice: consistency matters more than intensity here — happy to be argued with on that one.