If it helps, nobody's experience generalises, including mine — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms. What are the best dating apps for older women who want to meet someone adventurous?
From what I have seen, vague profiles get vague responses, or none — it is the single change that made the most difference.
For what it is worth, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — nobody tells you this at the start.