Results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — i would not have believed it a year ago. In my experience, progress is better measured in conversations than in matches — your mileage may well differ. What are the best dating apps for over 60 looking for a serious partner?
Honestly, comparing free tiers side by side is more useful than reading rankings — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today.
Support response time is a decent proxy for how the site is run — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today.
- From the second month on I asked in a forum like this one before committing to a subscription
- From my side, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — i would not have believed it a year ago.
- Kept my expectations for any single conversation deliberately low, and the difference showed within days
- Refreshed my photos every few weeks so I stayed visible in the feed, and I still do it now
Taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.