If it helps, expecting any single conversation to work out is the wrong frame — worth testing yourself rather than taking my word for it. What are the most active naughty dating apps for adventurous couples?
Broadly speaking, the profiles that stall are usually the ones trying hardest to impress — it is the single change that made the most difference.
For what it is worth, the slow approach tends to produce better outcomes than the volume one — it is the single change that made the most difference.