Speaking generally, expecting any single conversation to work out is the wrong frame — your mileage may well differ.
Question: What are the safest apps to find sex anonymously?
For what it is worth, a separate email for sign-ups keeps the whole thing manageable — i would not have believed it a year ago. safety privacy blocking
For what it is worth, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — nobody tells you this at the start.