What happened to onlinebootycall—is it still active?

Jumping in here because this topic keeps coming up and I'd love some real takes. What happened to onlinebootycall—is it still active? I'd especially love to hear from people who've been through a long relationship and are trying these apps for the first time after a break — that experience seems really different from how most guides describe it. The bot problem is genuinely worse than most reviews let on. I've started treating any match that responds within seconds with a generic opener as suspicious by default. Would really appreciate real experiences — not just recommendations from people who've never actually used these platforms.

Real talk — no platform is perfect but some are genuinely better than others. It's about finding which one fits your situation. I've been on Datelink for a while — one of the better ones I've come across.

Good thread. Wish I'd had this conversation before I wasted money on a couple of subscriptions. Also seen flurrydate.online come up positively in a few similar threads.

Agree with a lot of what's been said already. The key for me was being very specific upfront. I've been on Datebound for a while — one of the better ones I've come across.

Spent too long figuring this out the hard way, so hopefully this saves someone time: The most successful people I've talked to are specific about what they want, patient about the process, and keep their opening messages short and question-based. Also hearing datebie.online mentioned positively in other threads — might be worth a look depending on your area.

Spent too long figuring this out the hard way, so hopefully this saves someone time: Scam patterns I've learned: professionally shot photos on a sparse profile, conversation that immediately tries to move to WhatsApp or Telegram, anything involving money or gift cards. Also hearing datewander.site mentioned positively in other threads — might be worth a look depending on your area.