Honestly, comparing your results to anyone else's is a losing game — happy to be argued with on that one. What is the best app for adult chat random without revealing your phone number?
From what I have seen, anything that pressures you to move off-platform in the first hour is a red flag — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.
From what I have seen, a paywall on the first message is a paywall on the whole product — happy to be argued with on that one.
- Made sure at least one picture showed me doing something, not posing, which cut the noise dramatically
- It became automatic — I remembered that the people who post about success are a tiny sample, which mattered more than I expected
- Without fail I accepted that not every match was going to lead anywhere
Honestly, taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.