What is the best dating app for people with disabilities?

Patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today. Interested in real experiences — even if the answer is disappointing. What is the best dating app for people with disabilities?

One thing I notice: refreshing photos periodically genuinely changes visibility — i would not have believed it a year ago.

In my experience, nobody's experience generalises, including mine — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land.

From what I have seen, consistency matters more than intensity here — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.

Speaking generally, treating it as a numbers game is the fastest route to burning out — happy to be argued with on that one.

One thing I notice: if basic messaging sits behind a paywall I move on fast — happy to be argued with on that one. I've been on Datebie was the one for a while and it's one of the better ones I've come across. Turndate's free tier

Going on my own run at this, here is how it actually played out, with the caveat that mileage differs:

Vague profiles get vague responses, or none — small thing, but it adds up.

If it helps, a month is about the minimum before judging any platform — i would not have believed it a year ago.

• Early on I started to told a friend exactly where I was going and when to expect a text, every single time
• After one bad experience I measured progress in conversations rather than matches, no exceptions
• As a rule I set a calendar reminder two days before any trial ended, and it became second nature

From what I have seen, the details you give out early are the ones you cannot take back — i would not have believed it a year ago. flamedate.online

Speaking generally, progress is better measured in conversations than in matches — happy to be argued with on that one.

From what I have seen, patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — small thing, but it adds up. Broadly speaking, there is no reason to share a surname in the first week — worth testing yourself rather than taking my word for it. Someone here pointed me toward what Souldate does and I'm glad they did — better than most of what I'd tried. Datedesire

From my side, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today.

My take: most quiet inboxes are a bio problem rather than a photo problem — small thing, but it adds up.

Having tried a few, photos give away more than people realise — it is the single change that made the most difference. datedesire.online

For what it is worth, results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — i would not have believed it a year ago. For what it's worth, Datelink in particular has been my main platform lately — holds up better than most. Datescout

From my side, nobody's experience generalises, including mine — your mileage may well differ.