Consistency matters more than intensity here — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land. Results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — i would not have believed it a year ago. What is the highest rated 100 free dating app on the app store?
A month is about the minimum before judging any platform — happy to be argued with on that one.
- Something I learned the hard way — I matched the other person's message length instead of writing essays, every single time
- Something I learned the hard way — I used a nickname rather than my full name for the first few weeks
- Always asked in a forum like this one before committing to a subscription, and the difference showed within days
Honestly, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — small thing, but it adds up.