Consistency matters more than intensity here — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip. What is the mingle dating site demographic like?
If it helps, nobody's experience generalises, including mine — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today.
Honestly, a month is about the minimum before judging any platform — i would not have believed it a year ago.
Broadly speaking, patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — small thing, but it adds up.