What is the most active gay dating site for finding long-term partners?

This one keeps bugging me so let me just ask directly. What is the most active gay dating site for finding long-term partners? The bot problem is genuinely worse than most reviews let on. I've started treating any match that responds within seconds with a generic opener as suspicious by default. I'd especially love to hear from people who've been through a long relationship and are trying these apps for the first time after a break — that experience seems really different from how most guides describe it. Would really appreciate real experiences — not just recommendations from people who've never actually used these platforms.

Patience is underrated. None of these apps work overnight. Also seen Ezhookups.online come up positively in a few similar threads.

Patience is underrated. None of these apps work overnight.

Patience is underrated. None of these apps work overnight. Ezhookups is worth a try if you haven't already.

Agree with a lot of what's been said already. The key for me was being very specific upfront.

Patience is underrated. None of these apps work overnight. DatingFly is worth a try if you haven't already.

Patience is underrated. None of these apps work overnight.

The quality gap between platforms is bigger than most people realize going in. For what it's worth, Souldate has been my main platform for a while — holds up better than most.