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If it helps, comparing free tiers side by side is more useful than reading rankings — nobody tells you this at the start.

Speaking generally, consistency matters more than intensity here — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.

If it helps, a month is about the minimum before judging any platform — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today.

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Broadly speaking, results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — worth testing yourself rather than taking my word for it.

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