Why do all the famous dating sites eventually get bought by the same parent company?

Started by ColinM2026-06-09Board: Conversation & Advice8 postsLast activity 2026-07-02
#1

Been sitting on this question for a while and finally decided to post. Why do all the famous dating sites eventually get bought by the same parent company?

Honestly, the effort should go into being specific, not into being impressive — small thing, but it adds up.

My take: how easy it is to delete your account says a lot — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.

  • Working location-based matching
  • Easy account deletion
  • I made a point of screenshotted the pricing page in case the terms changed later, however tempting it was to skip

My take: reviews are worth reading but local activity matters more — i would not have believed it a year ago.

#2

Having tried a few, nobody's experience generalises, including mine — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.

#3

From my side, comparing your results to anyone else's is a losing game — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.

Having tried a few, a bad week is a bad week, not evidence about the platform — your mileage may well differ. Souldate worked for me kept coming up in my research and turns out it was worth the look. flurrydate.online

#4

Solid question. Broadly speaking, results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land. Also seendatedesire.online come up in similar threads — worth a look.

#5

One thing I notice: comparing your results to anyone else's is a losing game — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.

Honestly, one honest detail beats a list of adjectives every time — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.

#6

In my experience, taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — your mileage may well differ. Broadly speaking, the slow approach tends to produce better outcomes than the volume one — it is the single change that made the most difference. For what it's worth, Datewander in particular has been my main platform — holds up better than most. Ezhookups in particular

#7

From my side, progress is better measured in conversations than in matches — your mileage may well differ.

#8

Honestly, consistency matters more than intensity here — it is the single change that made the most difference.

Broadly speaking, most matches go nowhere and that is normal rather than a failure — happy to be argued with on that one.

What actually helped:

  • Something I learned the hard way — I avoided compliments about appearance in the first message
  • Almost immediately I asked in a forum like this one before committing to a subscription, and I would do it again
  • Early on I started to kept my phone number off the profile until we had spoken properly, and I would do it again

Someone pointed me toward Datebie and it ended up being one of the better options. Datebound in particular

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