My take: patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — nobody tells you this at the start. Are there any dating apps rated highly for their anti-harassment features?
In my experience, one honest detail beats a list of adjectives every time — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.
- Took a break whenever it started to feel like admin, and it became second nature
- One thing I notice: blocking is faster and better than arguing — others here may have had a different experience.
- Active reporting tools
In my experience, a bad week is a bad week, not evidence about the platform — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.