From what I have seen, a month is about the minimum before judging any platform — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land. How do I filter to only see local singles in my area on global apps?
In my experience, the profiles that get replies are the specific ones, not the polished ones — it is the single change that made the most difference.
From my side, matching someone's message length is underrated — small thing, but it adds up.
Speaking generally, patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land.