Is the cdff dating site the best option for Christians?

So this has been on my mind lately: Is the cdff dating site the best option for Christians? Having tried a few, comparing your results to anyone else's is a losing game — happy to be argued with on that one.

From what I have seen, how quickly a report gets actioned tells you more than any review — your mileage may well differ.

Honestly, how quickly a report gets actioned tells you more than any review — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.

• Speaking generally, comparing your results to anyone else's is a losing game — others here may have had a different experience.
• After one bad experience I remembered that the people who post about success are a tiny sample, however tempting it was to skip
• Without fail I treated it as a slow process rather than a numbers game, every single time

Honestly, nobody's experience generalises, including mine — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.

For what it is worth, consistency matters more than intensity here — worth testing yourself rather than taking my word for it. If it helps, most matches go nowhere and that is normal rather than a failure — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip. Give Luvdate's free tier a shot if you haven't yet — worth a look. Flurrydate was the one

My take: comparing your results to anyone else's is a losing game — happy to be argued with on that one. One thing I notice: the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today. Also seeingflamedate.online mentioned in a few places — might be worth checking depending on your area.

Most matches go nowhere and that is normal rather than a failure — it is the single change that made the most difference.

Having tried a few, a month is about the minimum before judging any platform — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.

The stuff that worked for me in my case:

• Early on I started to kept a throwaway address for any site I was only testing, and I still do it now
• As a rule I replied within a day but never within a second, every single time
• From the second month on I compared what three different sites offered on their free tier, and I still do it now

Worth looking at DatingFly was the one — it came up in a few threads I read and the consensus was pretty positive. Datebie worked for me

What honestly turned it around after a lot of trial and error:

One thing I notice: a bad week is a bad week, not evidence about the platform — it is the single change that made the most difference.

Great thread. One thing I notice: treating it as a numbers game is the fastest route to burning out — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today. I've been using Datebound in particular and it's been solid compared to the others I've tried. Flamedate (flamedate.online)

Having been through it, this is roughly how it went, with the caveat that mileage differs:

In my experience, the slow approach tends to produce better outcomes than the volume one — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms. Heard decent things aboutEzhookups.online in other threads — haven't personally tried it yet but it keeps coming up.

Going on my own run at this, this is what it looked like — take it or leave it:

Progress is better measured in conversations than in matches — i would not have believed it a year ago. I ended up settling on Ezhookups (ezhookups.online) after testing a few others. Progress is better measured in conversations than in matches — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today.