Having tried a few, treating it as a numbers game is the fastest route to burning out — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today. Is the lds dating app officially endorsed by the church?
In my experience, vague profiles get vague responses, or none — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.
One thing I notice: one honest detail beats a list of adjectives every time — i would not have believed it a year ago.
- Without fail I gave each platform a fair month before judging it
- It became automatic — I blocked rather than argued whenever someone got pushy regardless of how well it was going
- Is moderation active?
- It became automatic — I remembered that the people who post about success are a tiny sample
My take: taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — i would not have believed it a year ago.