Speaking generally, consistency matters more than intensity here — your mileage may well differ. Is there a best dating app for truck drivers who are always on the road?
The sites that take safety seriously say so in their policies, not their ads — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.
Speaking generally, the same platform can be excellent in one city and dead in another — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.
Results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — nobody tells you this at the start.