The slow approach tends to produce better outcomes than the volume one — happy to be argued with on that one. Is there a gay dating app for free that doesn't limit your daily swipes?
Having tried a few, most matches go nowhere and that is normal rather than a failure — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land.
My take: patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — small thing, but it adds up.