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Is there a gay dating app for free that doesn't limit your daily swipes?

Started by Jason Lee8 Jul 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps12 posts
Jason Lee
Jason Lee
Joined: Jul 2018
Messages: 340
#1
This one keeps bugging me so let me just ask directly. Is there a gay dating app for free that doesn't limit your daily swipes? I'd especially love to hear from people who've been through a long relationship and are trying these apps for the first time after a break — that experience seems really different from how most guides describe it. Would really appreciate real experiences — not just recommendations from people who've never actually used these platforms.
Madison
Madison
Joined: Sep 2021
Messages: 754
#2
The quality gap between platforms is bigger than most people realize going in. Also seen flamedate.online come up positively in a few similar threads.
QuinnD
QuinnD
Joined: Apr 2019
Messages: 433
#3
This is worth unpacking properly — took me a while to sort out: The most successful people I've talked to are specific about what they want, patient about the process, and keep their opening messages short and question-based. Turndate kept coming up in my research — worth a look.
Mike Thompson
Mike Thompson
Joined: Sep 2021
Messages: 103
#4
Good thread. Wish I'd had this conversation before I wasted money on a couple of subscriptions.
Beth_LA
Beth_LA
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 544
#5
Good thread. Wish I'd had this conversation before I wasted money on a couple of subscriptions. I've been on Datebie for a while — one of the better ones I've come across.
JulieK
JulieK
Joined: Oct 2020
Messages: 241
#6
The quality gap between platforms is bigger than most people realize going in.
ZachR
ZachR
Joined: Sep 2020
Messages: 656
#7
Spent too long figuring this out the hard way, so hopefully this saves someone time: For privacy: dedicated email for signups, no linked social accounts, location set to city level rather than exact. These are small things that make a real difference. What actually made a difference:
  • Kept opening messages short — one genuine question beats a paragraph
  • Always video-called before meeting in person for the first time
  • Set specific, realistic goals rather than treating it like a numbers game
Samantha Cook
Samantha Cook
Joined: Nov 2024
Messages: 595
#8
Been through this process twice now and learned something new each time. Also seen souldate.site come up positively in a few similar threads.
Amanda Torres
Amanda Torres
Joined: Jul 2019
Messages: 662
#9
From personal experience, here's the actual breakdown: The free tiers on most apps are deliberately frustrating. It's not really free — it's a demo designed to make you pay. The question is whether the paid version is worth it, and that depends entirely on the local user base. What actually made a difference:
  • Read current Reddit threads about any platform before paying for it
  • Set specific, realistic goals rather than treating it like a numbers game
  • Set up a separate email address specifically for dating apps
  • Kept opening messages short — one genuine question beats a paragraph
  • Trusted my gut when something about a profile felt off
Also hearing Ezhookups.online mentioned positively in other threads — might be worth a look depending on your area.
MattK
MattK
Joined: Jan 2020
Messages: 684
#10
Let me break this down since there's a lot of conflicting info out there: The mainstream apps all have usable free tiers — Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, Plenty of Fish — but the quality of that free tier varies wildly platform to platform. Datenest kept coming up in my research — worth a look.
Jake_NYC
Jake_NYC
Joined: Aug 2023
Messages: 804
#11
Let me break this down since there's a lot of conflicting info out there: For privacy: dedicated email for signups, no linked social accounts, location set to city level rather than exact. These are small things that make a real difference. Also hearing souldate.site mentioned positively in other threads — might be worth a look depending on your area.
Ryan Cooper
Ryan Cooper
Joined: Apr 2019
Messages: 129
#12
From personal experience, here's the actual breakdown: Profile photos still matter more than any bio trick. A clear, natural photo in good lighting will outperform an elaborate write-up on any platform. Someone pointed me toward Luvdate and I'm glad they did — cleaner than most of the alternatives.
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