Most matches go nowhere and that is normal rather than a failure — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land. Is there a master app that combines all dating apps into one interface?
If it helps, comparing your results to anyone else's is a losing game — happy to be argued with on that one.
Taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — small thing, but it adds up.
Honestly, comparing your results to anyone else's is a losing game — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.