Is there an e dating app that focuses purely on virtual relationships?

Started by Paul Walker2026-06-25Board: Dating Apps8 postsLast activity 2026-07-08
#1

Curious what people here actually think: Is there an e dating app that focuses purely on virtual relationships?

Broadly speaking, the effort should go into being specific, not into being impressive — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.

Most quiet inboxes are a bio problem rather than a photo problem — happy to be argued with on that one.

From my side, consistency matters more than intensity here — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.

#2

A month is about the minimum before judging any platform — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land. If it helps, the slow approach tends to produce better outcomes than the volume one — i would not have believed it a year ago. Been using datebound.site for a while — one of the better ones I've come across. Turndate (turndate.site)

#3

The slow approach tends to produce better outcomes than the volume one — your mileage may well differ.

#4

In my experience, a nickname for the first few weeks costs you nothing — i would not have believed it a year ago.

#5

Honestly, progress is better measured in conversations than in matches — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.

My take: silence usually means the opener, not the person — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.

What actually helped:

  • Early on I started to asked open questions rather than anything answerable with one word, which mattered more than I expected
  • As a rule I left when something felt off instead of talking myself out of it until I actually trusted the person
  • Early on I started to treated any site with no visible moderation policy as a hard pass
#6

From what I have seen, expecting any single conversation to work out is the wrong frame — i would not have believed it a year ago.

From my side, patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.

What actually helped:

  • Put a real question at the end of the bio so replies had a hook
  • One habit that stuck: I avoided anything that hid the price until after sign-up
  • Every time I checked that the photos matched across their other accounts, and I would do it again
  • Without fail I gave each platform a fair month before judging it
  • Kept the first meeting short, public and easy to leave, and I still do it now

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#7

In my experience, progress is better measured in conversations than in matches — it sounds obvious written down, but it took a while to land. For what it is worth, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.datescout.site also comes up in similar threads — another one to look into.

#8

From my side, patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — nobody tells you this at the start. Honestly, expecting any single conversation to work out is the wrong frame — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today. Rendate is worth trying if you haven't already. Datebie

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