Having tried a few, patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — happy to be argued with on that one. Would like to hear what actually happened — not recycled review-site copy. Is there an hsv dating app for people with herpes?
If it helps, the risk is rarely the platform itself, it is the pace people push for — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.
Honestly, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.