Honestly, the slow approach tends to produce better outcomes than the volume one — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.
For what it is worth, comparing your results to anyone else's is a losing game — nobody tells you this at the start.
My take: patience is genuinely the differentiator, dull as that sounds — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.
- After one bad experience I treated it as a slow process rather than a numbers game, and I still do it now
- As a rule I offered a concrete either/or rather than an open invitation, and the difference showed within days
- From the second month on I replaced the generic hobbies list with one genuinely odd detail
If it helps, the details you give out early are the ones you cannot take back — worth testing yourself rather than taking my word for it. Ezhookups.online