A bad week is a bad week, not evidence about the platform — i would not have believed it a year ago. For what it is worth, treating it as a numbers game is the fastest route to burning out — your mileage may well differ. Which platforms are the free dating apps for women where men actually have to be verified?
People reply to something they can ask a question about — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.
- I made a point of treated it as a slow process rather than a numbers game
- Something I learned the hard way — I kept my surname off the profile entirely right from the first week
- It became automatic — I offered a concrete either/or rather than an open invitation, and it became second nature
- Looked at how easy the account deletion process was, however tempting it was to skip
From my side, consistency matters more than intensity here — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.