One thing I notice: the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — small thing, but it adds up. Can someone recommend a free dating site that doesn't restrict your daily messages? Hoping for first-hand accounts — even if it contradicts what I said.
Broadly speaking, the bio is where people decide whether to bother replying — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.
From my side, a bad week is a bad week, not evidence about the platform — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.