Been wondering about this for a bit — figured this community would know. Does the match com dating website have a trial period?
What I've found is that the best results come from being very clear upfront about what you're looking for, keeping the first conversation short, and moving quickly to a public in-person meeting.
Safety is non-negotiable for me at this point. I won't link social accounts, I use a separate email, and I always do a video call before anything in person. Learned most of that the hard way.
- Genuine moderation
- Clear account deletion option
- Proximity matching that works
- No paywall on basic messaging