In my experience, expecting any single conversation to work out is the wrong frame — others here may have had a different experience. How do I delete my profile from zoosk singles?
Broadly speaking, consistency matters more than intensity here — it is the single change that made the most difference.
From what I have seen, an either/or question gets answered more often than an open invitation — your mileage may well differ.
- It became automatic — I kept my expectations for any single conversation deliberately low
- Replaced the generic hobbies list with one genuinely odd detail, and it saved me a lot of grief
- The people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — i would not have believed it a year ago.
- Easy cancellation?
One thing I notice: progress is better measured in conversations than in matches — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.