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How does the ourtime dating site for seniors handle reporting fake profiles?

Started by Stephanie Bell16 Feb 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps10 posts
Stephanie Bell
Stephanie Bell
Joined: Sep 2019
Messages: 330
#1
This has been nagging at me and I thought this community would have real insight. How does the ourtime dating site for seniors handle reporting fake profiles? I've tested more platforms than I'd like to admit at this point. The gap between what gets marketed and what actually delivers is staggering — and it gets more obvious the more you try. Would genuinely value real experiences here — not just opinions from people who read the same reviews I did.
Paul Walker
Paul Walker
Joined: Mar 2021
Messages: 608
#2
Went through a very similar thing last year. Happy to share more details.
QuinnD
QuinnD
Joined: Nov 2022
Messages: 347
#3
Spent more time than I care to admit figuring this out — here's what's real: The scam detection pattern I've built: too-good photos with a thin bio, conversation moving to Telegram within two messages, anything that hints at financial need. What actually helped:
  • Cancelled auto-renew on every free trial the same day I signed up
  • Checked recent Reddit threads about any platform before paying
  • Did a video call before any in-person meeting, no exceptions
I ended up trying Turndate after it came up in a few threads — better than most I'd tried.
Chris Adams
Chris Adams
Joined: Jun 2018
Messages: 734
#4
Went through a very similar thing last year. Happy to share more details. Also seen datingfly.online come up in similar threads — worth a look.
RexS
RexS
Joined: May 2021
Messages: 185
#5
Solid question. The answer really changes depending on your specific city. Been using Datelink for a while — one of the better ones out there.
Eric Wright
Eric Wright
Joined: Jun 2024
Messages: 289
#6
The quality gap between platforms is much bigger than people realize going in.
AnnaK
AnnaK
Joined: Mar 2022
Messages: 342
#7
Real talk — patience is the thing no review ever mentions.
HenryL
HenryL
Joined: Mar 2021
Messages: 678
#8
Spent more time than I care to admit figuring this out — here's what's real: The scam detection pattern I've built: too-good photos with a thin bio, conversation moving to Telegram within two messages, anything that hints at financial need. What actually helped:
  • Cancelled auto-renew on every free trial the same day I signed up
  • Kept expectations realistic — not every match leads somewhere
  • Did a video call before any in-person meeting, no exceptions
  • Created a dedicated email address just for dating apps
Flurrydate kept coming up in my research and turns out it was worth the look.
VictorM
VictorM
Joined: Apr 2023
Messages: 44
#9
Went through a very similar thing last year. Happy to share more details.
Amber Sullivan
Amber Sullivan
Joined: Jun 2024
Messages: 784
#10
Good thread. This is exactly what I needed to see before I paid for anything. Souldate is worth trying if you haven't already.
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