In my experience, expecting any single conversation to work out is the wrong frame — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms. What are the dating apps with highest success rate for getting married?
One thing I notice: most matches go nowhere and that is normal rather than a failure — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.
Treating it as a numbers game is the fastest route to burning out — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today.
Taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — happy to be argued with on that one.