Okay so this might be a dumb question but I genuinely want to know: What happened to the old sexchatrooms from the Yahoo Chat days? Having tried a few, expecting any single conversation to work out is the wrong frame — your mileage may well differ.
Subscription pressure in the first session is a bad sign — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.
From my side, trials that hide the cancellation route are not worth starting — it is the single change that made the most difference.
From my side, nobody's experience generalises, including mine — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.