From my side, most matches go nowhere and that is normal rather than a failure — i would not have believed it a year ago. What is the best free dating app for over 50 users with easy navigation? Would appreciate the unvarnished version — however unflattering.
Consistency matters more than intensity here — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.
- It became automatic — I wrote a short bio that gave people something specific to ask about, and it became second nature
- Gave each platform a fair month before judging it, and it became second nature
- Early on I started to stopped treating a quiet week as evidence of anything, and it became second nature
- Honestly, treating it as a numbers game is the fastest route to burning out — your mileage may well differ.
From my side, the slow approach tends to produce better outcomes than the volume one — it took me longer than it should have to work that out.